Families of people buried in resting places vulnerable to coastal erosion say that indecision over how to address the issue is causing them avoidable anguish concerning the eternal homes of their loved ones.
Local authorities have identified three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being in danger of being swallowed by the ocean in the next few generations.
A recent report on the situation sets out a range of possible actions, from doing nothing to exhuming remains and reburying them in safer sites. Officials say it is for local people to determine how to proceed.
“Right now we’re in limbo. It causes me distress. My parents wanted this to serve as their final resting place, but it won't be because of the encroaching sea.”
Estimates suggest at least part of one graveyard could fall into the waves in the next 80 years, but some locals worry it will happen much sooner. “In my view it’s got less than 20 years, if you look at what’s happened in the last 30 years,” a farmer stated.
One resident recalled a childhood visit to the neighbouring settlement of Eccles, which has almost entirely disappeared into the water, along with its church and graveyard.
“It was possible to see human remains,” she said. “Some have this romantic idea that people’s remains will just get washed out to sea. They won’t. People will take bones as mementos and go plundering graves looking for valuables. That is completely undignified.”
“I fear that the same thing that befell at Eccles will happen here and there’ll be skeletons on the beach. I’d be appalled by that.”
Further up the coast is situated the grave of a ex-soldier who died while serving overseas. His mother expressed she could not sleep after learning her son’s grave might one day be moved.
“It truly trouble me to consider this won’t be his permanent home,” she said. “For us it’s an significant place to go.”
In her view, new burials should stop but says it is too soon to exhume current plots. “My preference for now is to take no action and watch carefully, but an timely resolution must be made when a tipping point has been attained.”
An absence of agreement over when and how to tackle the problem has left grieving relatives feeling exasperated and anxious.
Several families want more sea defences to slow the inevitable erosion and to permit burials to continue for now. Different voices argue the time for relocation is drawing near.
“It is very emotive,” a family member stated. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s uncertainty about how it is taken forward. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is responsible.”
A local official confirmed the graveyards were under the care of the local diocese. “Ultimately it is down to them to choose the direction to take. We are here to help support them through that journey with communities.”
It was also stated there was ample time to consider all the choices. “We are talking decades before it begins getting lost.”
“Currently, there exists no common view on what should happen yet. We need productive community discussions to discover the appropriate answers for each community.”
The possibility of the loss of the churches and graveyards was labeled one of “profound sadness for the local community,” but church representatives also spoke of a belief in resurrection, offering a spiritual perspective on the physical loss of hallowed earth.